This might be a bit of a contrversial issue but Oprah.com talked about it so I think we’ll be okay. There’s no true questionnaire that can take into account every intricate detail within a relationship…
But how do you know if your husband is cheating on you? Or your wife for that matter?
Or gentlemen, if your wife was picking up a book at the Barnes & Nobles at the Westwood Plaza would you immediately suspect her of being a sinister backstabber and throw all of her clothes out of the apartment?
What’s really important in this matter is not that you find small flaws to convince yourself that you are being done wrong but that you begin to look at yourself because if you get to a place of plotting on your spouse then you become the issue. If you begin to have thoughts about your spouse cheating on you start a conversation. It is communication that will resolve a matter. Oprah has a quiz on her website. I think that it will help you to start a conversation because if you’ve read this far then you are probably looking for some help in your relationship. Stick it out, love is not a feeling only, but a choice.